Leaning into the open refrigerator, your mother senses you reaching for crumbs of the chocolate chip cookies that are cooling on the kitchen counter and reminds you not to spoil your dinner. Reading a magazine in the family room, she homes in on the moment you are about to deliver a super-sized nuggie attack on your whiny little brother and without turning around, issues the let-go-of-your-brother-this-instant-or-you’ll-hurt-his-neck-and-then-you-can-
tell-your-father-all-about-it-when-he-gets-home command.
Wow. What is this amazing power that gives a mommy eyes in the back of her head?
Is it estrogen?
Was she struck by lightning?
Has she fallen victim to an alien invasion of talking walnuts?
No. It’s simply that vision is in the eye of the beholder. Not only are women’s brains wired in a unique and wonderful way, so are their eyes.
Inside your eye, the retina is the component that allows you to gauge focus, light, and movement. Two important parts of the retina are cones and rods, which are connected.
The main job of the cones is to allow for focus (especially intense focus on one thing at a time), meaning greater depth perception.
The rods of the retina, being extremely sensitive to light, can detect the slightest movement in the visual field, meaning greater peripheral vision.
Guess which women have more of – cones or rods?
That’s right – rods. As a general rule, the female retina has more rods than that of the male, resulting in greater peripheral vision and the ability to see the “whole picture” all at once.
The way she sees has a big impact on the marketing and sales of your business:
1. She sees more than what’s in front of her. With a brain that’s structured on massive signal input and a pair of eyes that possess the peripheral vision of a superhero, she can’t help but absorb visual cues (often unconsciously) that affect how she feels about your business. Paint color, carpet stains, dusty furniture, cluttered back office (why did you leave that door open?) – these signals are registered in her brain, directly into the file drawer marked “Business X” (x = your name here).
2. Lighting can make or break you. Her heightened sensitivity to light means it is strongly connected with the emotional component of the right brain. The mood that lighting evokes can be one of her first evaluation points when trying to decide whether to do business with you. One of the best marketing investments you can make is to hire a lighting design expert to project the “personality” of your business through the right kind of illumination, thus increasing customer confidence.
3. She sees it written all over your face. As a salesperson, whatever you tell her better be honest and authentic because she doesn’t just depend on your words; to her, your facial expression is an open book. The rods in her retina not only detect subtle changes in light, but also in movement. The slightest hint of manipulation sends her BS meter into the red zone, an emotional reaction you don’t want placed in the file her brain is keeping on you.
4. You can help her focus. Just being aware of a woman’s big-picture perspective can make you a better salesperson. Once you have her attention and understand her specific needs, you then have an opportunity to provide momentary relief from the barrage of external noise she carries around by helping her focus on the task at hand.
The magical question for nearly every woman is, “May I explain a couple of details about this camera/automobile/garden hose/financial planning service and why I think it might be right for you?”
Show her that you understand her specific needs, offer her your undivided attention, and give her permission to shut out the rest of the world for a few seconds. She’ll be your customer forever.
Remember: The eyes play a critical role in the consumer decisions a woman makes. It’s up to you to persuade her to see you not only in the right light, but the spotlight.
And that's also why women are good at finding things in cupboards (I think I read about it in Allan Peases's Why men don't listen and women can't read maps - which annoyed and amsued me in equal measure)
Posted by: mel | June 17, 2008 at 02:35 AM
Great post! I had no idea there was scientific evidence for what I've intuitively known to be true for ages. Great tips on how to market/sell to women! Even though I am a woman, I find it's helpful to take in as much advice about it as I can. :)
Posted by: Sandie Law | June 24, 2008 at 01:38 PM
What a brilliant article! I read it just when I was working on a website page with my husband and it explained exactly the differences in how we saw the artwork, colours used, shading, etc. This comes up all the time in work we do as partners in a business, but it is beneficial rather than detrimental to our work. Thanks for giving me an excuse for my distractions at times when he is so focused. By the way I am a great map reader as well and can find all the interesting stops enroute!
Posted by: Salama Evans | June 26, 2008 at 01:19 PM